The Golden Dinosaur | Jean Berkompas

You would think, in the year 2026, with the internet no further away than a finger-click on our phones – which pretty much everyone owns, except it seems, my brother – we would be smarter. After all, you can research anything at any time, no matter where you are.

Alas, this is not the case.

If anything, it seems that the dumbing down of America has reached its epoch. This trajectory began in earnest decades ago, when people first started believing that “we the people,” meant everyone. Beginning in the 1960s, when the civil rights movement finally made some inroads as legal protections were enacted that determined  people of color were, in fact, entitled to equal rights under the law; in the 1970s when the women’s liberation movement gained a foothold with women finally being able to get credit in their own name (1974), fighting and winning the right to autonomy over their own bodies (legalized abortion, 1973), and then continuing their fight to break the glass ceiling that has kept their pay lower than there male counterparts (a fight still going on today), and then, finally, in the late 1970s and early 80s when the LGBTQ+ community laid claim to their right to live in the world of equal rights for all. The dumbing down occurred when the White Christian Nationalist patriarchy realized this escalation of rights being afforded to Blacks, immigrants, women, and gay and trans folk put those undesirable others on equal footing with them. So they fought back by creating monsters to hate. And those monsters look suspiciously like Blacks, immigrants (especially those of color), women, and the LGBTQ+ community.

We now find ourselves in the muddiest of waters, where one specific group – white, male, heterosexual, Christian nationalists, with a contingent of billionaires funding them – claims superiority over other groups and will do anything – say anything – to ensure that their rightful place on the top of the pyramid of rights is not threatened.

Does that sound right to you? Or fair?

No, not to me either. And yet, here we are. People now openly, blatantly, attack others. Mostly they attack verbally, but sometimes physically as well, as in the recent lynchings taking place in the south, or ICE agents, in masks, assaulting people on our streets, in some cases using lethal force, but mostly just kidnapping people and sending them to concentration camps without due process, all while flashing their superiority cards. They think they are better – more worthy – then those they disappear off our streets.

I’ve heard the nonsense being spewed firsthand from people I thought were more educated and sensible, and sincerely wish there was a way to re-educate those who have fully imbibed the Kool-Aid of this morally and ethically compromised corrupt cult. But reason and facts are no longer credible weapons. How can you make a point when your opponent’s only argument is, “Oh, you just hate Trump,” or “Oh, that’s just fake news.” People have been asked why they support Trump and they respond by saying it’s because of all the great things he’s done. But when asked to name some of those things, or even just one, they fumble around and come up with nothing. The use of logic, reason, facts, research, or science is ineffective because they simply negate what you have to say without offering a defense of their position. Don’t they have the same internet search engines available as I? The same libraries? The same resources?

Do you remember the Ghost of Christmas Present from A Christmas Carol, by Charles Dickens? At the end of his time with Scrooge, he opens his robes to reveal two emaciated children clinging to him, and says, “This boy is Ignorance. This girl is Want. Beware them both, but most of all beware of this boy, for on his brow I see that written which is Doom, unless the writing be erased.” Dickens was effectively making a point about the social issues of the time, where ignorance represented neglecting education, leading to poverty and destruction, and Want was representative of the unmet needs of large swaths of society. He wrote that in 1843. Things haven’t changed much, have they?

Honestly? I don’t have a clue on how to combat ignorance. The interesting thing today is that a number of educated people seem to have fallen into the category of the ignorant. Which proves the theory that education, or even intelligence, does not equal wisdom. But perhaps ignorance is bliss – to be totally unaware of how you are being manipulated to do this regime’s bidding. What I see, however, are not blissful people. They are people who live in a world of fear. Hate is simply fear being expressed through anger. They suffer from the fear that others – the monsters they have been told walk among us – will take away something of theirs. What they don’t see, or perhaps refuse to see, is that their rights are being trampled and eroded as well by the regime they so ardently follow. Once you take away due process and claim the rules of law and order only apply to certain people, it won’t take long for those changes to affect any who don’t toe the line. Search history – we’ve seen this slippery slope before. Those under the influence of this regime are suffering and yet are unable to connect the dots as to why. Their lives could be filled with joy, contentment, compassion, and love. I pity them for allowing their unwarranted fear to dictate their lives. “Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” (Star Wars, Yoda)

I do, however, try to remain hopeful since roughly 70% of the voting population can see that the dark, dismal road we’ve been traveling on may be coming to an end. The other 30% will keep trucking along, not realizing they are headed over a cliff, their racism and bigotries fueling their lives. Perhaps reality will set in at some point, but true believers are rarely swayed. The masses understand that all we have is our humanity, and that humanity is what drives us to be loving and kind and compassionate, and, most of all, hopeful.

And I’ll take that any day of the week over ignorance, whether blissful or not.

~jwb~

Lots to be said about meditation, right? It’s been proven to enhance our ability to focus and to create that state of mindfulness we are so sorely lacking as we navigate days filled with the constant, relentless, bombardment of stuff begging for our attention.

Most people can’t find the time, or the peace and quiet, to meditate. Some, like me for instance, try and often fail. Well, give up is more like it. You can’t really fail at meditation. Sometimes you may do better than others in quieting the incessant thoughts, but even when you don’t, it’s not a failure. Sometimes I simply allow my frustration to take over and then stop.

So, I’ve found other things that bring me back to the present moment, and they are easy and often more pleasing than my meditation attempts. I listen to sounds. And there are some that I love so much they move everything else, every noise and every thought, to the background. And so I seek out those sounds.

For me, it’s the sound of my pen scratching on paper when I journal in the mornings. It’s the crinkly sound of paper that’s been written on. The sound of gravel crunching beneath my feet on walks with my dog. The ticking of a clock in a quiet house. The honking of geese as they fly overhead. A babbling brook. A train horn in the distance. Ocean waves crashing on the beach. Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens…oops, just kidding about the raindrops and whiskers, although they are some of my favorite things!

It’s the sounds though. They dampen the noise because they direct my focus the moment the sound registers. To now. This moment. Here. These sounds do for me what snowfall does in winter. It muffles all the other noises going on around me and inside me.

We live in a world of distractions. Everything and everyone vying for our attention. It is chaotic and noisy and unrelenting and, oftentimes, just plain frustrating. And if it’s not outside noise, it’s our other constant companion – our monkey-minds. We roll things around in our heads, relive the past, fear the future, overthink every little thing we’ve said or done, or should say or do. But if we can choose to shut some of it out, even for just a moment here or there? Why not try?

Peace and contentment come from within. There is nothing outside of you that can provide it. You give it to yourself, or you don’t. It is always your choice. Find what works to slow down the pace and will allow you to focus on moment – with mediation, or sounds, or perhaps just finding a quiet spot to commune with nature. Find what soothes your soul and do that. Now is the only time we have, the present moment, and I believe it to be in our best interest – emotionally, intellectually, physically – to create more of those quiet moments to savor.

~jwb~

These are certainly dark and difficult times, and I often find myself disheartened when someone suddenly displays their racism, bigotry, xenophobia, and homophobia. Disheartened, but no longer surprised.

I realize what lurks beneath the surface has always been there, disguised by the murky waters it lives in. What is portrayed to the world may appear to be loving, compassionate, caring, and even empathetic. All the right words are spoken. But that’s the tip of the iceberg, if you will. Beneath the surface? Well, there’s the truth that we don’t often see but which exists, nonetheless. The darkness swirling in the water. The core belief that one is somehow better than another. More deserving than another. And the visceral need to be recognized as that better person.

The divisive politics in our country – and around the world – didn’t create the “us vs. them” mentality. That mentality has always existed, albeit hidden beneath the surface. The difference now is a new regime that says it’s okay to let your bigotries out into the open. Let them breathe fresh air. Hate who you want because, oh yes, you are better than those you hate. Those of color. Those of ethnic backgrounds dissimilar to your own. Those who came to this country more recently than your ancestors (who, may I remind you, were also immigrants) seeking a better life. Those who love someone of the same gender. Those who are unable to live in a body that doesn’t align with what their very soul is communicating to them. Even women, which this regime is actively trying to silence. Yes, the regime says, “You’re right, they are all beneath you. Less then. Not worthy nor deserving of equal treatment under the law. Not entitled to the loving, compassionate treatment all human beings should be deemed worthy of. It is your birthright as a white person to hate and disparage them.”

So, yeah, that’s what they’re going with.

For me, hearing this from people I know? Disheartened. Not surprised. We have a wedge being driven between those who seek a better life for all and those who seek a better life for themselves. There has been a fear instilled in people that if someone else, not like them, gets a piece of the pie there will be less pie left for them. Sharing does not appear to be a word found in their vocabulary. Nor is the word empathy. They are incapable, I believe, of truly experiencing empathy for another living being who doesn’t look and act like them.

I learned long ago to look beneath the surface. Listen for the nuance that doesn’t align with the spoken word. Look for character by watching what people do, not what they say. Now, more than ever, as we continue to see expressing hated for others as acceptable, we need to be very cognizant of what people do versus what they say, and who stands to gain – monetarily and power-wise – as we walk through these uncharted, murky waters. Of course, it’s very helpful that now the hatred is verbalized openly and unabashedly. In many cases we no longer need to guess where someone’s allegiance lies.

There are certain boundaries I will not cross. I am happy to say that my moral compass remains intact. I continue to believe in humanity. I believe it is important to take care of others regardless of their circumstances, immigration status, background, skin color, sex, ethnicity, religion, or sexuality. To advocate for those whose voices are being silenced and whose lives are being torn apart. And while I will not succumb to hating others when their opinions differ from mine, I also will not accept that toxicity which encourages harming others into my life. It’s not who I am, nor whom I would ever want to become.

I readily admit I’m far from perfect, but every day I hope to be a little bit better and gentler than the prior day. As the Venerable Monks who walked for peace suggested, start every day with the mantra “Today will be my peaceful day.”

And so it will.

“That’s how we’re gonna win. Not fighting what we hate, saving what we love.”  (Rose, Star Wars, The Last Jedi).

~jwb~

I find it incredibly interesting that, now some 4 months post-election, there are people still flying their Trump flags. I know they are happy he’s the new president, even though he still lost the popular vote (all three times he ran, by the way) and is running our government, economy, and country into the ground, but in days past, after elections, people used to remove their political campaign signs. But not Trump voters. No. This is an “in your face, we won, you suck” moment for them. They are superior and you’d best not forget it.

On the bright side is, for those of us on the “losing” side, we know exactly what the people living in those houses believe. Because here’s the thing: we knew when the political race was on, that Trump was a bigoted, racist, xenophobic, homophobic, misogynistic, sexual predator, rapist, draft-dodging, twice impeached, convicted felon and terrible businessman, not only declaring bankruptcy at least 6 times but also found liable for fraud with both his Trump University and his Donald J. Trump Foundation. These are all easily researched facts. We knew all this before the election even happened.

And yet, here we are.

So, you see, this is where I struggle. Because knowing all that – knowing all that before you cast your vote – should have, perhaps potentially, maybe, encouraged you to rethink where and in whom to place your trust. Alas, for some 77 million people, it did not. And while the excuses du jour were the price of eggs and immigration, I find those to be rather lame excuses in exchange for tossing aside your morality and ethics. Assuming they were there to toss away.

Which leads me to the next logical conclusion: you see yourself in Trump. He is a reflection of you. You see the superiority complex, and you like what you see. To lift yourself up you must drag others down. And you feel good about that.

I may have been on the losing side of the election, but I’m pretty sure I’m standing on the right side of history. My moral compass remains intact. I have not lowered my ethical standards for a cheaper egg. Nor will I denigrate any living being for simply existing in my world. We are one. Human beings. We all bleed red.

I have friends who are Democrats and who are also friends with Trumpers. And it is lost on me. My friends are, most assuredly, better people than I to be able to overlook that particular character flaw in someone, but I struggle with the thought of being friends with someone who is now cheering on a regime that has openly attacked women, the LGBTQ+ community, and veterans, all groups to which I belong. Not to mention all the other groups being openly disparaged: Blacks, Latinos, Hispanics, Muslims, immigrants, etc. And while I can appreciate the right to having one’s own opinion – your opinions being as valid as mine – when your opinion endorses the cruelty being inflicted every day on government workers, immigrants, people of color, women, transgender people, gays, and families in need, and you can find no room in your heart for treating all humans equally and equitably, well then, this divergence between you and I creates a crevasse simply too great to cross.

I would be happy to go back to the old days where, if we spoke of politics, it was based on policy choices. What laws best support the masses? Where should we spend the tax money collected? How best can we help each other in this country and in other counties? How do we fix the immigration issues facing our country? How do we keep the economy chugging along? These are valid concerns. But the arguments have become increasingly vitriolic. Policies are hate-based, cruelty for cruelty’s sake, and the MAGA side seems intent on finding ways to get one step up the ladder by standing on the back of another. I find that incredibly disheartening.

Alas, here we are. And while my one voice may not matter, the many millions now speaking out together will. I will not look the other way and pretend this is normal. And I am willing to face the consequences of that position. I will continue to look to my moral compass for guidance. I will not relegate anyone –not even the Trump acolytes and voters – to a “less than me” status. I may not agree with them, or be able to call them friends, but their right to exist is equal to mine. And I will always stand by that.

~ jwb ~

There is a new world order coming, can you feel it?

A shift. A cataclysmic shift to the right. To dictatorships. To authoritarianism. To Christian theocracy dominated by white, male, heterosexual men. And I am frightened for this world of ours.

As the Trump regime cozies up to the Putin regime, the minions of yes men hired by Trump are spreading out across the globe, meeting with other dictators, forming alliances with Neo-Nazi political parties, and denigrating democracy in front of the masses.

How did this happen so quickly? A month into this new American regime and oligarchical coup d’état, and we find we are headed toward an abyss from which there is no return. Certainly not within my lifetime. Certainly not for many, many decades.

But here’s the thing: it didn’t happen quickly. As any historian can tell you, not only have we been here before – think robber barons of the 19^th century in America – but the Republican party has clearly been on this trajectory since Reagan in the 1980s, if not before. The writing may have been on the wall but complacency paralyzed the Democrats. We believed nothing could usurp the Constitution of the United States of America. It was the be-all end-all of this great country. It couldn’t be broken.

Or so we thought.

Now, here we are. Quickly learning that the revered Constitution is nothing more than a flimsy piece of paper, not worth the ink used to write it. Unless, of course, it is defended – vehemently, constantly, relentlessly. It was created as a roadmap, detailing the composition of our government, its power structure, its checks and balances, and what our expectations of our government, as inhabitants of this country, should be. It was written with an eye toward the type of country we should strive to be. It was written by flawed human beings who did the best they could with what they knew at the time, so, yes, of course, it is a work in progress. Proof of that is the 27 amendments added to the Bill of Rights to date.

Now we find ourselves threatened by a puppet president who strings were bought and paid for, to the tune of almost 300 million dollars, by a billionaire suffering with his own striking case of narcissism and delusions of grandeur. Shadow President Musk and his rogue band of childlike Muskrats have put their fingers in every cookie jar of this country, now having access to the Treasury payment systems, US Agency for International Development (USAID), Social Security Administration (SSA), the Office of Budget and Management (OBM), The Governmental Accountability Office (GAO), the Internal Revenue Service (IRS), just to name a few. They have gained access to every American’s personal information, and we don’t have a clue as to why.

Doesn’t that scare you? Or do you honestly believe Musk is doing things for your benefit?

Look, I don’t have any answers as to why this president and his shadow are undermining this country and the world, except to say their motives are not pure. They are aligning with Russia against our allies. They are now removing some of our top military leaders. They have proven they lack compassion, empathy, and integrity. What I do know is that if we don’t stand up now and call out what is clearly wrong, this chance will quickly pass and the script will be written.

This is a non-violent coup d’état in the process of forming a dictatorship. I know even the republicans who voted for the Trump regime can see this although they may be unwilling to admit it. They drank the Kool-Aid and are embarrassed to admit how wrong they were. But when they no longer get the benefits this society has long provided, like SNAP benefits, social security benefits for the aging and disabled, Medicare and Medicaid benefits, student loans with reasonable interest rates, reproductive healthcare and birth control for women,  worker’s rights and protections, environmental protections, and voting rights for all, well, then, maybe they will admit they were wrong. There is no shame in admitting you were deceived. There is shame in continuing down a path you now know is clearly wrong and harmful to all the people residing in this country and this world.

Perform an internal check of your personal morals, values, ethics. Do your own integrity check. If you find you are okay with our government intentionally and indiscriminately harming others, then so be it. But if your ethical standards are being sorely tested right now, consider taking what is perhaps the more difficult path, but clearly the more righteous one.

“Dark and difficult times lie ahead. Soon we must all make the choice between what is right, and what is easy.”

~ Professor Dumbledore, Harry Potter ~

I trust we will all make the right choice, sooner rather than later.

~jwb~